Let’s get friendship IUDs, girl.
Oh my god why do people talk to me. (via icarntspell)
I need to be able to say this someday. I NEED to.
Source: icarntspell
I think sometimes people get a little too hung up on the ways they’re hurt or damaged. And I think those people are also the ones who tend to be the least forgiving.
It’s only when we accept that pain and mistakes are part of life that we can accept ourselves and each other for what we really are.
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Source: delacroix
In the instances when POC say shit like ‘Oh I can’t stand white folk’ or ‘Damn white people’, they aren’t saying ‘Oh I think they are inferior, I want to humiliate them, abuse them, enslave them and wipe out their people!’, they’re saying ‘Damn, after a couple hundred years of white people thinking I’m inferior, humiliating me, abusing me, enslaving me, and trying to wipe out my people, I don’t wanna deal with them.’ The context is completely different.
Source: elverdugo
It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them.
(via fwarg)
Source: andkatesays
There is nothing wrong with loving the crap out of everything. Negative people find their walls. So never apologize for your enthusiasm. Never. Ever. Never.
(via delacroix)
Source: seventyfourspecies
We let Willow cut her hair. When you have a little girl, it’s like how can you teach her that you’re in control of her body? If I teach her that I’m in charge of whether or not she can touch her hair, she’s going to replace me with some other man when she goes out in the world. She can’t cut my hair but that’s her hair. She has got to have command of her body. So when she goes out into the world, she’s going out with a command that it is hers. She is used to making those decisions herself. We try to keep giving them those decisions until they can hold the full weight of their lives.
I have awesome friends.
Racism isn’t born, folks. It’s taught. I have a 2-year-old son. Know what he hates? Naps. End of list.
(via thebusiness)
Source: thedaddycomplex
I’m not going to censor myself to comfort your ignorance.
Source: ghostisborn
- Prof. Brian Cox
So many people don’t comprehend how FUCKING RIDICULOUS AND AMAZING the universe is.
(via invincibeard)
Source: doctoramyroryriver
One of the ironies of white racial identity is that white Americans tend to see themselves in non-racial terms, as the norm against which all other groups are compared. This perception of whiteness as “normal” distances all other groups and reinforces the power relationships that have been imbedded in U.S. society since colonial days. Whites regard themselves as “just people” and see only “others” as having race.
For example, in causal discussions and everyday conversations, whites often mention the race of non-whites, even when racial identities are not relevant to the story. For example, a white American might say, “This black guy asked me for directions to city hall,” identifying race even though it plays no particular role in the anecdote. When people are not identified by their race (“This guy asked me for directions to city hall.”), the assumption is that they are white: normal people who need not further description.
This view places whites in a highly privileged status. “Other people are raced, we are just people”…. There is no more powerful position than that of being ‘just’ human. The claim to power is the claim to speak for the commonality of humanity. Raced people can’t do that—they only speak for their own race.
Just as whites tend to be unaware of their racial identity, they also tend to be unaware of the privileges that attend “whiteness.” Sociologist Peggy McIntosh notes that whites (like men) are reluctant to acknowledge their privilege vis-à-vis non-whites (women). This denial is a way of protecting the privilege—if it doesn’t exist, it doesn’t have to be explained, examined, or defended.
Joseph F. Healey, Diversity and Society: Race, Ethnicity, and Gender (via humanformat)
For the cheap seats.
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Source: humanformat


